First, check out my latest post about alchemizing grief .
A Prompt (If You Choose to Accept It)
Personify Your Grief
One of my favorite writing exercises are around personification. It’s the act of giving human qualities to something non-human. Basically, it is a way of breathing life into abstract feelings, complex feelings, feelings that may take a lifetime to unlock. Personification is a magical poetic device.
So here’s a creative prompt for you:
If your grief (the emotion) were personified, who would he/she/they be?
What’s their story? How do they speak?
What do they wear? What’s their favorite food?
What do they want from you? How do they move through the world?
What do you want from them?
Still feeling stuck? Make a list of action-words that make us human and attribute them to grief:
Examples: Hide, Haunt, Cry, Fly, Ask, Tremble, Spin, Crouch, Grow, Laugh…
It’s Complicated
Grief taps the church stain glass
“Look up” she exclaims, smiling-sacred
Except her teeth are rotting, gums show
Her world spins slow; confusion haunts her face
Truth is: we’ll look away
Grief sobs, whispers goodbye
As unarmed vehicles swerve
Through the arteries of neighborhoods
She’s singing to a migrant mother
As she’s cuffed, roughed up, disappeared
Grief wails guttural
You can fill a cold cell with her yearning
We ritualistically look away or
cover our ears
Except, not today
Today, we watch grief turn a trick
Her bruised and blemished legs shimmering sunlight
She sashays like a death wish, some call her “fast”
Nobody asks who violated
So she makes snow angels
From the ashes of charred forests
Paints her lips with loneliness
Calls it war paint
Grief misbehaves
Never crosses her legs
Spits, curses, twirls
She’s unruly
She’s a murder of crows perched on a power line
She’ll follow you home
You’ll lose sleep
Grief floats through our collective dream
A bloom of jellyfish crowding ocean surface
She’s the bright pink and the stinging
She’s
Stinging
Stinging
Stinging.
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